The A to Z List of Dads

   I have learned, and am learning, about dads from two important men in my life:  my own dad and my husband as he fathers our five-year-old son.  These two perspectives allow me the opportunity to observe fatherhood.  Based on my observations, here is my A to Z List of Dads.

A Affection dispenser, providing hugs, kisses, high fives, and pats on the back

B Bug catcher and releaser

C Coach, teaching the proper way to hold a golf club or hit a t-ball

D Date for video games, movies, and sporting events

E Expert.  There are certain things only dad can do (hooking up the computer or installing a light fixture)  

F Fixer who repairs broken toys

G GPS  - the human variety

H Helper - math homework, flat bike tires

I Introducer, acquainting a child with a favorite musician, old movie, or sports team

J Joker, one who excels at riddles, silly jokes, and funny faces

K Kid Advocate.  A dad will always stand up for his child and protect him.

L Lifter, whether it be heavy packages or children  

M Mimic.  One who can replicate the voices of Elmo, Mickey Mouse, or a favorite celebrity.

N Nap buddies

O Overseer.  The one who has the ultimate responsibility and answers to “Daddy-can- I?” and “Daddy-will-you?”

P Performer.  One who utilizes various methods to entertain children.

Q Quiet monitor

R Role model demonstrating how to handle minor annoyances (traffic), inconveniences (backed up sink), and disagreements

S Supporter, encouraging his child to try, and try again

T Transportation provider, a lift on dad’s shoulders or a ride on dad’s back

U Umpire, for settling disputes

V Valentine, always loving his children

W Worker,  at his paying job and at home

X Xs and Os provider

Y Yard supervisor, checking that the playground is safe and all children are abiding by rules and playing fairly.   

Z Zen Master (unofficially).  But one who attempts to maintain calm regardless of surrounding circumstances.